"Mom, I am with your eyes!"
How to prevent sibling rivalry? Do you have brothers in your family? If it is too late to try, which is the only child, it might be time to start working on how to deal with and accept sibling rivalry. Yes, that's right: to accept it.
And 'nobody's fault, is exactly what they are doing
Sibling rivalry is something that happens, even in the most perfect of families, with the idyllic property. (YouRemember Cain and Abel?) And 'natural that a son from his position as the child feels torn. And 'natural for the child to point B, as the second string, the reserve team. Wait and see what happens when other letters are thrown into the fray later in the game. Accept the fact that sibling rivalry will happen. Accept that you can not stop, or which make it impossible. And accept that no matter how carefully you try to intervene on the side you want to watch one orother of these brothers and sisters in struggle Snipping.
You can not fix all the time
Their eighteen year old son can ride his job and then to college classes, no one with him, but your sixteen, is still working on his work permit has, and sat beside him. This is not something that you are not a rule that you did. And while any reasonable person would understand, there is no such thing as a reasonable sixteen. YouWalk in one day and find the two head-locked in the living room, the signs of their apparent fight in any room. There is not much that one at this point other than reference to the fact that fighting is never the answer and that it was disappointed with the attitude to do. Two years is fighting on the toy itself, even if neither he did before the other took it. girl of twelve, is angry because they do not wear make-up sister or high-heeled shoes. Part ofhis childhood and learn how to deal with each other can now set their relationship with life.
Disputes, the physical struggle is not OK
Will the angels all her life go without a fight? You're lucky if they do it through an entire meal, most of the time. Set the boundaries early, they step up early and then get them these things work for you. The rules are simple: to name no name and no physical confrontations.
YesI love them all equally, but not the same
Okay, Mom leaving big secret: equality is not exactly the same. Perhaps love how funny that a baby smiles, or how your child looks just like his father. Got something to share with a child is responsible, not affecting others. Just because you and your youngest can sit and read under a tree, does not mean that they feel better, only that they share a common interest with her.
UnusualInterests, but the common time
Just because you do not have the same interests, does not mean you do not waste your time with other children. Effort to connect with them, especially if it's the age that they feel like they are locked away from you get more. Let them know what you're interested and you care to take care of them.
Remind them what the family
Look at your relationship with yourBrothers get an idea of why they behave like rabid wolves. If you have your sister does not talk, because it is still holding a grudge for the doll, Which They destroyed when you were young, or in rare cases, you call your brother at all, it's time to repair the fences, so good example is can. After all, you come pick up your spouse and your friends, your family treasures that you receive, if you wanted to or not.
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